{"id":1492,"date":"2012-01-16T18:01:08","date_gmt":"2012-01-16T17:01:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/novysmer.cz\/index.php\/2012\/01\/16\/oima-jedne-tenaky\/"},"modified":"2012-01-16T18:01:08","modified_gmt":"2012-01-16T17:01:08","slug":"oima-jedne-tenaky","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/novysmer.cz\/index.php\/2012\/01\/16\/oima-jedne-tenaky\/","title":{"rendered":"O\u010dima jedn\u00e9 \u010dten\u00e1\u0159ky"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"logo\"A\u0165 u\u017e jedno, nebo dv\u011b d\u011bti, v jin\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edpadech i v\u00edc, ka\u017ed\u00e1 rodina je bit\u00e1 na tom, \u017ee chce, aby se jej\u00ed rod roz\u0161i\u0159oval a  na\u0161e budoucnost m\u011bla smysl. Na\u0161e budoucnost jsou d\u011bti a bez nich za n\u011bkolik let vym\u0159eme, proto\u017ee se z n\u00e1s stane n\u00e1rod d\u016fchodc\u016f.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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J\u00e1 sama m\u00e1m d\u011bti dv\u011b, 5 let a 7 m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f. N\u00e1\u0161 st\u00e1t je ke mn\u011b natolik benevolentn\u00ed, \u017ee mi neumo\u017en\u00ed d\u00e1t star\u0161\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b do \u0161kolky, proto\u017ee pro\u010d by to d\u011blal, jsem na mate\u0159sk\u00e9, doma s druh\u00fdm potomkem, tak\u017ee se mohu starat o dal\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Jen\u017ee, ka\u017ed\u00e1 maminka mi potvrd\u00ed, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b pot\u0159ebuje kolektiv, aby se d\u00e1l rozv\u00edjelo<\/strong>. Pot\u0159ebuje pedagogick\u00fd dozor, aby se jeho sm\u011br ub\u00edral tam kam m\u00e1. Pot\u0159ebuje p\u00e9\u010di odborn\u00edk\u016f, aby se nau\u010dilo po\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b mluvit, pokud m\u00e1 t\u0159eba logopedick\u00e9 pot\u00ed\u017ee, pot\u0159ebuje vyr\u016fstat v kolektivu, aby se nau\u010dilo spole\u010densk\u00e9mu chov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Ka\u017ed\u00fd mal\u00fd capart se u\u010d\u00ed, \u017ee se mus\u00ed d\u011blit, \u017ee nesm\u00ed ubli\u017eovat, mus\u00ed chr\u00e1nit slab\u0161\u00ed, nesm\u00ed lh\u00e1t a mnoho dal\u0161\u00edho. Jen\u017ee a\u0165 se rodi\u010de budou sna\u017eit jak cht\u011bj\u00ed, tohle v\u0161echno mu nedaj\u00ed v t\u00e9 m\u00ed\u0159e, jak pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed. Potom to dopad\u00e1, jako \u017ee jsme n\u00e1rod nevychovanc\u016f<\/strong>, a na\u0161e republika v\u0161ude ve sv\u011bt\u011b z\u00edsk\u00e1v\u00e1 tuto pov\u011bst bez v\u011bt\u0161\u00edch snah.<\/p>\n

P\u0159edstava toho, \u017ee t\u00edmto syst\u00e9mem si pro\u0161li i ti nejvy\u0161\u0161\u00ed, kte\u0159\u00ed o n\u00e1s te\u010f rozhoduj\u00ed je \u017ealostn\u00e1. Nen\u00ed se pak \u010demu divit, \u017ee to u n\u00e1s vypad\u00e1 tak jak to je.<\/p>\n

Na\u0161e norm\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010desk\u00e1 rodina, dva dosp\u011bl\u00fd a dv\u011b d\u011bti, v dne\u0161n\u00ed dob\u011b nezm\u016f\u017ee nic, proto\u017ee st\u00e1t j\u00ed nic neumo\u017en\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Man\u017eel chod\u00ed do pr\u00e1ce, od r\u00e1na do ve\u010dera, aby n\u00e1s u\u017eivil, proto\u017ee n\u00e1klad 4-\u010dlen\u00e9 rodiny s d\u011btmi<\/strong> nap\u0159\u00edklad v tomto v\u011bkov\u00e9m obdob\u00ed je n\u011bco kolem 25.000,- v hrub\u00fdch minim\u00e1ln\u00edch n\u00e1kladech<\/strong>. Je tu po\u010d\u00edt\u00e1no s nejni\u017e\u0161\u00edm n\u00e1kladem na bydlen\u00ed.<\/p>\n

V\u017edy\u0165 jen to nejmen\u0161\u00ed rob\u00e1tko m\u011bs\u00ed\u010dn\u011b spolkne 4-6.000,-<\/strong>. Nemohu j\u00ed nic vy\u010d\u00edtat, v\u017edy\u0165 roste ka\u017ed\u00fdm dnem, j\u00edst mus\u00ed, obl\u00e9kat se mus\u00ed a mnoho dal\u0161\u00edho. Nehled\u011b na to, \u017ee a\u0165 p\u0159ijdete k doktoru, nebo na soci\u00e1ln\u00ed \u00fa\u0159ad, koukaj\u00ed na d\u00edt\u011b, jestli je pat\u0159i\u010dn\u011b zaji\u0161t\u011bn\u00e9, jak vypad\u00e1, v jak\u00fdch podm\u00ednk\u00e1ch \u017eije, jestli m\u00e1te dostate\u010dn\u011b velk\u00fd byt a spr\u00e1vnou kategorii, aby d\u00edt\u011b m\u011blo spr\u00e1vn\u00fd z\u00e1klad. Jen\u017ee u\u017e nikoho nezaj\u00edm\u00e1, jestli na to m\u00e1te, nebo si na to mus\u00edte p\u016fj\u010dit.<\/p>\n

Zn\u00e1m i rodiny, kter\u00e9 by bez prarodi\u010d\u016f dneska nezmohly nic, bez jejich podpory by skon\u010dily na ulici. Na\u0161e star\u0161\u00ed dcera m\u00e1 tak\u00e9 sv\u00e9 n\u00e1roky, a to ne jen na stravu, ale i na osobn\u00ed rozvoj. Tak\u00e9 se j\u00ed ned\u00e1 nic up\u00edrat. Jsou to d\u011bti, na\u0161e budoucnost. Mus\u00edme se o n\u011b postarat.<\/p>\n

Ji\u017e n\u011bkolikr\u00e1t jsem se v dob\u011b zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed ptala na ot\u00e1zku, kterou si z v\u00e1s u\u017e minim\u00e1ln\u011b jedno, ka\u017ed\u00fd z v\u00e1s polo\u017eil, KDO BERE PR\u016eM\u011aRN\u00dd PLAT ZA M\u011a???<\/strong><\/p>\n

Podle \u010deho se vlastn\u011b stanovuje v\u00fd\u0161e, jsou to jen odhady, nebo kdo rozhoduje t\u0159eba o v\u00fd\u0161i mate\u0159sk\u00e9? Rodi\u010dovsk\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvku? Pokud vezmu, \u017ee n\u011bkter\u00e1 maminka pracovala na vysok\u00e9m postu, brala nap\u0159 30.000 hrub\u00e9ho m\u011bs\u00ed\u010dn\u011b, a rozhodla se, \u017ee svou ratolest chce ovliv\u0148ovat po celou dobu „mate\u0159sk\u00e9 dovolen\u00e9“. V\u017edy\u0165 na to nem\u00e1! Rodi\u010dovsk\u00fd p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvek v tabulkov\u00fdch v\u00fdm\u011brech j\u00ed bu\u010f donut\u00ed \u017e\u00edt na hranici b\u00eddy, nebo zm\u011bnit dobu \u010derp\u00e1n\u00ed mate\u0159sk\u00e9 dovolen\u00e9, tud\u00ed\u017e jej\u00ed pl\u00e1n v\u011bnovat se d\u00edt\u011bti je op\u011bt naru\u0161en a nem\u016f\u017ee si zvolit.<\/p>\n

St\u00e1t j\u00ed donut\u00ed vr\u00e1tit se do pr\u00e1ce d\u0159\u00edv, aby d\u00edtko mohla u\u017eivit, a ona mus\u00ed a\u0165 chce, nebo ne, d\u00edt\u011b d\u00e1t do jesl\u00ed, nebo hl\u00eddac\u00ed agentu\u0159e, a co si budeme pov\u00eddat, soukrom\u00e9 \u0161kolky stoj\u00ed dardu. Pro\u010d soukrom\u00e9, st\u00e1tn\u00edch \u0161kole v jednom roce ubylo, nebyly d\u011bti, a najednou, kdy\u017e je pot\u0159eba je otev\u0159\u00edt, vym\u00fd\u0161lej\u00ed, jak to obej\u00edt, aby se otev\u0159\u00edt nemusely.<\/p>\n

Jakou vlastn\u011b m\u00e1me mo\u017enost volby mate\u0159sk\u00e9? \u017d\u00e1dnou, stejn\u011b se za\u0161katulkujem podle toho, jak chce st\u00e1t a jejich na\u0159\u00edzen\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Rodi\u010de si dok\u00e1\u017eou od \u00fast utrhnout, aby mohli d\u00e1t d\u011btem, ale jak dlouho to vydr\u017e\u00edme?<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00e1\u0161 sm\u011br si nem\u016f\u017eeme ur\u010dit, ur\u010duj\u00ed ho za n\u00e1s lid\u00e9, kte\u0159\u00ed s n\u00e1mi ne\u017eijou a pochybuju, \u017ee si n\u00e1\u0161 \u017eivot n\u011bkdy zkusili, nebo \u017ee by si ho s n\u00e1ma cht\u011bli vym\u011bnit. Um\u0159eli by hlady a studem.<\/p>\n

P\u0159evzato z www.prorodinysdetmi.cz\/<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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